Christian dating and when to be exclusive


It’s not the only way to do it, but I’m confident that it’s the most effective one.I agree with Evan’s advice about waiting for sex if NSA sex does not suit you.Finally, if you DID bring it up, he would probably laugh because he already thought of you as his girlfriend already.Share this with your friends who want to know a healthy relationship timeline.This is not to say that it’s “wrong” to commit to someone before 4 weeks; merely that you’ll have a better sense of who you’re committing if you vet him first, instead of giving him a free pass to boyfriend-hood because you like him and want to sleep with him.



But, I am equally scared of pushing for something that is happening naturally and perhaps making him feel pressured and stressed about something that is easy and great, naturally. If I talk with him, how do I bring up being exclusive so that he doesn’t feel pressured?I agree with Evan’s advice to have the boyfriend/sexclusivity conversation before sex.The only place I would differ is on the specific advice to the OP.But, we are technically not exclusive (meaning, we talked prior to sleeping together and said that we were both able to date others, if we wanted).