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Sometimes two people just don’t vibe or it becomes clear that they want different things.To be able to date with your self-esteem, you need to have awareness and have cleared the smoke so you can smell the BS.Make sure you have been addressing your fears and any other issues for a while before you start dating again, because if you do it too soon and you get your fingers burned, it may set you back. I can mentally and emotionally cope with someone not reciprocating my interest or dates not working out.Dates don’t work out for all sorts of reasons and it doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with you.People who don’t know or use their boundaries and red flags analyse the crapola out of things. Say it with me – Sex without the intimacy, care, trust, respect and love, is just sex.They rationalise and project all sorts of excuses on it or they deny the existence or extent of the issue – this is dangerous. Sex doesn’t communicate anything emotionally but combined with a genuine emotional connection that exists, can enhance intimacy.’, your perfect partner is going to fall out of the sky, you will be far less likely to fall into any old habits and you’ll ultimately be taking care of you. I’m over my ex and am no longer emotionally invested in them. If you are not over your ex you are unavailable and will end up passing time with people, messing them around, flip flapping in indecision, and expecting them to do the emotional work of getting you over your ex. If you date to feel better, you’ll probably feel worse after the initial high of attention.You’ll also spend too much time comparing and contrasting and in reality, you just can’t be emotionally present.
Unavailable people often have a lot of ‘loose ends’ in their lives and some of these exes boomerang in and out like bad pennies.
If you don’t, you will take it personal when even the most minor of interactions don’t work out.