He has great dress sense He’s had years to find his style and he’s used them wisely. You had them on posters up on your wall and now you’re sitting opposite a lookalike at dinner. He doesn’t make a big deal out of his dating skills ‘It’s your turn to plan a date’… You’re free to enjoy each others’ company without such expectations of the other person. They’re usually mid-forties with the years etched on their chiselled faces. He can afford to take you places Not only does he know where to take you but he has the means to do so. Neither of you are hoping to hit a milestone You’re years off kids and he’s been and done marriage. Her figure was outrageous; her grooming impeccable.But Ted, himself 25, loved Tricia's wit, generosity, and great looks. "When you're in your prime, she'll be an old lady," they moaned. (I know; "Tell me something that I don't know.") If a woman is more than five years older than her husband, a number of issues can sour the in-law relationship.That they may explode, that they may just adore it. You are in a relationship with your guy, you feel it's the right thing to do, you are not in a relationship with your parents.Your BF is not in a relationship with your parents.The 15-year age difference didn't matter to either of them – but it mattered a whole lot to Ted's parents. "You could have anyone you wanted; why would you marry someone old enough to be your mother? The envelope, please: Warning lights should flash when the bride is very young, (as in under legal age) and the groom is pushy.But before you pull the plug on the nuptials, consider the consequences.
My 42-year-old sister and her 30-year-old boyfriend-and me (34-years-old) and my 60-year-old husband.
Now, I'm sure your parents wnat the best for you, I'm sure they want to know that you are safe in this situation, that you aren't going to shut them out, that you won't be used or hurt because of this relationship.